Graduand Photo Taking ^^

Jasmine, Charmaine, Sam, Seline + Me .................. Jasmine, Me, Charmaine, Carol + Mei Ngoh


On 31st October 2008 (coincidentally its on the Halloween Day ^^)
UTAR BBA Group 6 2008 took our graduation photos
All of us have to wear formal tops
And for us ladies, we are encouraged to put make-up

The first shot is with us wearing the graduand gown, but without the hat =(
The next shots are free poses, we have to pose however we want
The final shot is the group photo,
One formal shot, and one free pose shot
I have a great time, especially looking at other classmates' poses ^^

Class Gathering

One week is over already, and tomorrow have to attend classes again,
It seem like there's a lot of activities with my classmates during this whole week,
Monday ate KFC with Charmaine, Jasmine and Victor,
Too bad Ah Si couldn't join us,
Coz she got another appointment.

Tuesday ate Japanese Buffet @ Shogun One Utama (see photos above),
Its our class gathering + Dixon’s Pre-birthday Dinner,
We ate so much cos there is a lot of tasty food,
Especially UNAGI my favorite,
Everyone eat until we can't stuff anything in our stomach anymore,
Sam always say some funny things, kept on taking scallops to our table=P
I'm sure i'm gonna get fat with all this food XD

Wednesday Sing K @ Green Box Jusco Cheras Selatan,
With Charmaine + Jasmine + Ah Si
Sing + EAT again. Definitely will get fat…..SWT!!!!!
Jusco Day also, But nothing to buy.

But overall, its been an enjoyable week ^^

Some photos of Me #3

Some photos of Me #2

The Dummy

by Michael Mack

In that forgotten part of town Where wasted hopes and dreams abound, A wrinkled man with life near end, In hopes to have at least one friend, Fashioned bits of wood and things And made a dummy run by strings. He sat alone for hours on end, Conversing with his only friend And found delight within the fact That he controlled it's every act. He told it how he never had A chance, since all his luck was bad Although he'd tried so to succeed - The dummy nodded and agreed. And how his journeys in romance Had never given him a chance, And wasn't it a crying shame That he was always held to blame When everyone knew, oh so well, That life is but a living Hell, Controlled by lust and power and greed? The dummy nodded and agreed. With patience that would rival saints, That dummy sat through all complaints And, with each little expert tug, He'd droop his head or bow or shrug And give some comfort to the man Who held his lifelines in his hand And helped to fill a lonely need When he just nodded and agreed. Senility increased with time As did the old man's phantomime, And feverish fingers pulled with glee The dummy's dance of misery. They never left each other's side Until the day both stopped and died. We found them lying, hand in hand, The dummy - and his wooden friend.

Some photos of Me

Here is a couple of my recent pictures. Just thought that i should try to upload some pictures here ^^

Love Cheater

This is a story which happened to a good friend of mine, A. She's been dating her boyfriend, S, for 4 1/2 years. They've been in a long-distance relationship for a couple of years due to their own studies.

However, for the past 7 months, that guy, S, have been having another relationship with another girl. This other girl is a Philipino girl who works at a pub. For the past 7 months, he have been lying to A. When he do see her, he can look into her eyes and tell her that he loves her, even though he's having an affair with the Philipino girl.

When he's out with the Philipino girl, and A calls, he would not answer her call. He would wait until he have sent the Philipino girl back home, then only he would answer A's call. He would give A many excuses such as 'I didnt hear my phone ring', or 'I was sleeping' or 'my phone battery died' or 'there's something wrong with my phone' and many others. I can write a book especially on the bullshit excuses he told.

Before A went back to the other state she studies in, he could look into her eyes and tell her that he loves her. He could look into her eyes and tell her that she is the only girl for him. He could tell her that his love for her is so strong that the both of them would never be apart. What a bloody jerk he was. He had a relationship and was sleeping with this Philipino girl, and he was lying to his girlfriend.

He had lied to A that he's broke because he had invested a lot of money for a business. The truth was that he had spend all his money on this Philipino girl. He bought her expensive gifts, took her out for fancy dinner, took her out for movies, when he go partying with the Philipino girl, he would spend everything. This is how he really got broke. He had cried to A that he's broke and his parents were not giving him any money. Basically he acted to be sad and depressed so that A would give him money. In the end, his tactic worked, A banked in RM500 for him. He took the money and spent it on the Philipino girl. Till now, he haven't returned A her money.

Last month, in September, while he was in the Philipino girl's house taking a shower, the Philipino girl answered his handphone when A was calling. The Philipino girl told A that in fact he have been dating the Philipino girl for a long time already. The Philipino girl told A that he told the Philipino girl that he had broken with A for 1 year already. The Philipino girl told A many other things.

When A confronted S, he told her that it was a prank. He told A that he met up with his secondary school friends, and he thought that it would be funny if he played a prank on A. He told A that it was J's girlfriend who played a prank on her. A wanted to talk to J's girlfriend to make sure that the story S was telling is the truth. But S told A that he was embarrassed to ask for J's girlfriend's number. A trusted S and believed his bullshit story. He is such a JERK!!

After this incident, S was still with the Philipino girl, sleeping with her whenever he wants. A told S that she would forgive him for the prank incident, but this made her trust towards him less. S told A that he will gain her trust back. S was a happy man, he managed to deceive A to believe his story.

2 weeks ago, S went to KL because his close friend just came back from Australia. S told the Philipino girl that he had to go to KL on a business trip. He told A that he wanted to see her. But the main reason S wanted to see her was that he wanted money from her. However, they had a quarrel, and she went back home without giving S any money. That night S called her and cried to her saying that he's very broke and that he came to KL to see her and he trusted her that she would give him money. A banked in money for S again, she had fell for his lies again.

Four days ago, A found out that the earlier prank was not a prank. A had spoken to the Philipino girl. She was trying to tell the Philipino girl that S was lying to her too. While the Philipino girl was talking to her, S grabbed the phone from the Philipino girl and told A not to disturb him and he had broken up with A 1 year ago. Actually, S was acting this out because he didnt want the Philipino girl to find out that he's still with A. S told the Philipino girl not to believe A and that my good friend, A, is behaving this way because she is still hurt.

Well, now my good friend, A, no longer wants to be with S after finding out that he had been cheating and lying to her. That jerk still don't want to admit his bloody mistakes to A or the Philipino girl. Hence, he's a 1st class JERK!!

I feel absolutely disgusted with S's attitude. He already has a nice and sweet girlfriend, and they have been a couple for 4 1/2 years. But he's still not satisfied, and threw away years of feelings and trust between them and have an affair with a Philipino girl.

I won't pretend that i'm an expert in love, or that i know everything that has happened between A and S, but i still think that if you no longer love someone, break out the news to your partner and make a clean break. Why bother making up so many lies to cover up more lies? What's the point in continuing a relationship if you can't practice fidelity and treasure the love and trust between you? Well, maybe there are reasons behind it all, but the fact still remains that you've cheated.

This is not posted with the intention of offending anyone or being bias etc. I just thought of sharing this story, to create an awareness that such thing do happen to people.

Life's Wisdom Quotes

The greatest use of a life is to spend it for something that will outlast it.--Anonymous

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.--Anonymous

And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. --Abraham Lincoln

We are not human beings on a Spiritual journey. We are Spiritual Beings on a human journey.—Anonymous

Life is the art of drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises. –Samuel Butler

All that is made seems planless to the darkened mind, because there are more plans than it looked for...There seems no plan because it is all plan: there seems no centre because it is all centre. --George MacDonald

An unexamined life is not worth living. – Socrates

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. --Henry David Thoreau

He not busy being born is busy dying.-- Bob Dylan

When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, that is when you command the attention of the world. --George Washington Carver

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. --William Jennings Bryan

Whatever you are, be a good one.--Abraham Lincoln

The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor. --Vince Lombardi

If a man is called to be a streetsweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the host of heaven and earth will pause to say, here lived a great streetsweeper who did his job well.—Martin Luther King
I'd like people to remember me for a diligent expert workman. I think a poet is a workman. I think Shakespeare was a workman. And God's a workman. I don't think there's anything better than a workman. --Laurence Olivier

The virtues of men are of more consequence to society than their abilities, and for this reason, the heart should be cultivated with more assiduity than the head.
--Noah Webster

The last great freedom of man is the freedom to choose his attitude under any given set of circumstances.--Victor Frankl, noted Psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler. --Henry David Thoreau

It is quite true what philosophy says: that life must be understood backwards. But then one forgets the other principle: that it must be lived forwards. --Soren Kierkegard

Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it. –Unknown

Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that’s the stuff life is made of. –Benjamin Franklin

How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. --Annie Dillard
Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.—John Lennon

For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin — real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way. Something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. -- Fr. Alfred D'Souza

I believe that all wisdom consists in caring immensely for a few right things, and not caring a straw about the rest. --John Buchan

I don't fear failure. I fear succeeding at something that doesn't matter.--Dan Erickson

The size of a man (his wisdom) can be measured by the size of the things that make him angry. - J.K. Morley

What you love is a clue to what you hate, and what you hate is a clue to what you love.—Chip Brogden

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. --Martin Luther King Jr.

There is no right way to do the wrong thing.-Unknown

It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad. --C.S. Lewis

When a person who used to “use” people for their own gain finally succumbs to being used by his/her Creator instead, the world dramatically changes for the better, both for the person and for the world. --Gary Amirault

Many a genius has been slow of growth. Oaks that flourish for a thousand years do not spring up into beauty like a reed.- George Henry Lewes

You have your identity when you find out, not what you can keep your mind ON, but what you can't keep your mind OFF. -- A.R. Ammons

Are you a thermostat, or a thermometer? Do you merely reflect the environment, or do you change it? –Unknown

Common sense is not so common. – Voltaire

No man was ever wise by chance. –Seneca

The wise person questions himself, the fool others. –Henri Arnold

I have never let my schooling interfere with my education. - Mark Twain

Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler. --Albert Einstein

If I devote myself to other pursuits and contemplations, I must first see, at least, that I do not pursue them sitting upon another man's shoulders. I must get off him first, that he may pursue his contemplations too. --Thoreau

Common-sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom. --Samuel Taylor Coleridge

If God gives you a watch, are you honoring Him more by asking Him what time it is or by simply consulting the watch? --A. W. Tozer

Experience is the comb we receive after we’ve lost our hair. –Unknown

The thing about our choices is that after we have made them, they turn around and make us.—Anonymous

Start doing the things you think should be done, and start being what you think society should become. Do you believe in free speech? Then speak freely. Do you love the truth? Then tell it. Do you believe in an open society? Then act in the open. Do you believe in a decent and humane society? Then behave decently and humanely. --Adam Michnik

The line separating good and evil passes not through states, nor between classes, nor between political parties either, but right through every human heart, and through all human hearts. This line shifts. Inside us, it oscillates with the years. Even within hearts overwhelmed by evil, one small bridgehead of good is retained; and even in the best of all hearts, there remains a small corner of evil. It is impossible to expel evil from the world in its entirety, but it is possible to constrict it within each person. --Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

The spirit of a person's life is ever shedding some power, just as a flower is steadily bestowing fragrance upon the air. -- T. Starr King

When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.--Indian saying

To live a rich and abundant life, ask not what life can do for you, ask what you can do for the lives of others. --Gary Amirault

We live that our souls may grow. The development of the soul is the purpose of existence. God Almighty is trying to obtain some decent association for Himself. --John G. Lake

We may think God wants actions of a certain kind, but God wants people of a certain kind. --C.S. Lewis

When it comes time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home. -- Chief Aupumut, Mohican

When death, the great reconciler, has come, it is never our tenderness that we repent of, but our severity. --George Eliot

In the last analysis it is our conception of death which decides our answers to all the questions life puts to us. --Dag Hammarskjold

I still believe that standing up for the truth of God is the greatest thing in the world. This is the end (purpose) of life. The end of life is not to be happy. The end of life is not to achieve pleasure and avoid pain. The end of life is to do the will of God, come what may. --Martin Luther King, Jr.